Create the Relationship You Desire

Often you may find yourself at a standstill in your relationship. Maybe you feel a bit disconnected from each other, maybe the communication hasn’t been what it was. The intimacy has been affected or is dwindling. Maybe one or both of you are taking things personally or you are finding yourself to be very defensive. It happens. And often it is because of a narrative that is going on within you and maybe even your partner.

If I were to say that all of this perfectly normal, how would you feel? It’s about what you do with it that matters. Sometimes life’s stresses can create disharmony, not just in the relationship, but in the relationship with yourself. This can be really hard to navigate as you are both in the emotions attached to whatever it is that is creating the narrative. Relationship issues like these can be very common as it’s the unprocessed emotions that will take you round and around in the same habits and patterns.

As I often say to my clients, it’s about allowing space for you and your partner to be heard. We often believe we are listening and hearing our partner, but many people make the mistake of only listening to the parts that we may disagree with, which then feeds back into the argument. It can be hard to be patient when you are feeling discombobulated. I teach my clients how to hear, listen, communicate, and reconnect with their partners.

It can feel very daunting sometimes to open up to someone about how your relationship has been going. You may find that one of you ends up coming to see me first before you consider coming with your partner. I understand that this can be a big process, even for considering to see me. When I work with couples, I always start with what it is you would like to achieve, either as individuals or as a couple. It’s a question that is far easier to answer then you realise and will be the focal point that we begin at. Where we go from there is by looking at the different strategies, habits, patterns, or behaviours that you will need to implement to make the changes you are looking for. I am here to walk alongside of you both as you begin creating the relationship you desire.

Love isn’t always easy, but it’s definitely worth holding space and time for…

Yvette Karan

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