Tag: Disappointment

  • Meditation for Being in the Moment

    We are more grounded when we allow ourselves to be who we are, and learn not to create a reality of who we are. When you own your past and present this then creates a deeper harmony with yourself and grounds you more.

    When we allow the stillness of the mind, we then create a pathway to calmness, which in turn can still those negative thoughts that run in our heads. Give yourself a discipline of practising how to breathe; you can then learn how to become calm, focused and more positive in your future.

    Bringing the awareness to yourself can enable you to direct your focus. It helps you to take charge of your own wellbeing. Use all the tools that you have available to open up all the possibilities that are there for you.

    You can learn how to let go of troubles and emotions because you learn how to have them. When you allow this to come into your way of thinking your path becomes lighter, freer, and happier. Even learning to believe in you starts to open yourself to the universal energies, which have high understandings and this in itself helps you to see the true balance that is within us all.

    My question that I would like to ask you all is do you believe that it is easy to allow your emotions to overtake you; do they then make you feel tired, depressed, and very heavy about life?

    Can you also see that a part of this could be due to grief, which can come from many places: a death of a loved one, a pet, or a lost friendship, the loss of oneself through ill health, or the changing of one’s circumstances in life. However, how many of you are hard on yourself? Your mental thoughts can also tip you over and rule you.

    This meditation is about bringing you to the moment and it is something we can often talk about, about being in the moment, but we don’t necessarily understand what it means or what it looks like. If you can imagine and see your life, you would probably be dashing from one point to another thinking about what you would need to do tomorrow or next week. You might even be looking at what didn’t go well for you in the previous weeks that have just been. However, this can go on day after day, minute after minute. And it can really throw you off balance. This isn’t being in the moment.

    Being in the moment looks completely different. You may look at something from the past to improve it, but you feel settled. You may look for something that you want to achieve in the weeks to come, but you wouldn’t be whittling or worrying. You would be more focused, have a lot more clarity, and you would be more settled within yourself. You would have appreciation for everything that you have done or need to do. And you would extend an understanding to yourself of your efforts or where you are in the present moment; an understanding that is filled with compassion, both for yourself, others, and for the world around you.

    It might seem like a lot to ask for or to possess. But when we are in the present moment, present within ourselves, we are more capable of going through the ups and downs of life, no matter how big or  small. Because most importantly we can understand that we are always in a state of movement and change, something we can flow with on a regular basis, coming to our own sense of self and inner power. 

    With Love

    Yvette xx

     

  • Meditation – The Return Journey of the Heart

    Meditation – The Return Journey of the Heart

    Meditation of the Heart Chakra – Creating the Connection

    Reiki offers a connection of the chakras to help heal and guide you through life, teaching you an incredibly useful discipline that will help you make time and space for you. Modern life can often make us feel all mixed up and thrown off balance, Reiki is a way to learn to bring that balanced connection back to your life. Life is forever moving and changing, and so grounding yourself with a deeper inner connection to yourself can guide you to where you want to be. That deep connection can then help you bring peace, clarity, direction, and understanding. An understanding that becomes clear through this journey.

    My own journey was prompted by something my grandfather used to say to me…

    “To get somewhere, you need to know what you want – what is your desired outcome?”

    He would say that if you choose to walk blindly through life, then that’s okay. But if you want more, then you really need to wake up and know who you are. You need to create time and understanding of and for yourself so that you can truly reach a place of peace and connection. I have always used my grandfather’s words wisely and while training over the years in many different therapies, it all began to unfold for me. Over time I started to know what I wanted. A big part of that is also to know what you don’t want.

    Have you heard the phrase many times before that it is not about the destination but the journey? This is true. There are many different ways, different roads and paths to follow, different disciplines and different hearts. One understanding can often be found in many. Sometimes it is as simple as just opening your eyes to see. To clearly see the lessons around you, the understanding and guidance that is on hand to help you.

    Never be in a rush – truly you have time, you have the space, but most importantly, don’t ignore you. There is nothing more important in life than you. Allow yourself to face who you are and love everything there is about you. Allow yourself to feel peace with all that you have done and all that you think and know that you are – become friends with yourself, even if you feel you have made mistakes in the past. We all have. That is normal, it is natural and human, be friends with it. Learn not to judge who you are or the people who have helped you to become the way you are, whether you think or know their actions and your reactions to be good or bad. When you stand on the bridge of understanding, all things will become clear and open to you.

    Ever feel something is missing – you may have found that you are or were looking for something, almost as if you feel something or someone is missing in your life – you may have no idea what it is or where to look – and as crazy as it sound it may be that you are in fact looking for YOU. You might have spent a long time looking for someone or something else that will give you love and understanding and a sense of completeness, but sometimes it’s actually the love and understanding of ourselves that we need to truly feel whole. Of course, all things that are missing could be valid, both people and experiences, and finding them can help our sense of wellbeing but sometimes finding  yourself amongst it all will actually reveal what you truly want out of life.

    The heart is a magical place of fulfilment and joy but often people feel disappointment or pain in their heart chakra. When this happens, you may want to run away and think that you will be better without it. Often that’s not the case. If you walk to the pain instead of away and become friends with it, just as you would be friends with the love and the joy, you will see something different.

    It may take a while but you can get there.

    The heart chakra is open at the front of our body and at the back. All new things that happen flow through the front of the chakra and flows back out. So, if we close the back because of the pain and suffering, when the new things come through it is difficult for us to feel the joy as it mixes with the pain. If we close the front, nothing new can come in and we are stuck with the pain and the suffering again.

    By creating the understanding and acknowledgement of the things that happen to us, whether we see or know it to be good or bad, will keep this flow open so we can experience all things with equal respect and acceptance.

    So, as we sit on the bridge of decisions, choices, direction, clarity, love and compassion, try to understand that the heart is the bridge between the realms of the soul and the physical body. As you stand on the bridge in life, the guidance is truly within you here and now.

    I have created this healing meditation inspired by a friend for opening the heart chakra and helping you achieve peace, clarity, direction, and understanding. Find a quiet moment in your day to take some time for you. Sit or lie down, be ready to listen, relax and open to deepening this link. It is my pleasure to share this with you and make it freely available for everyone to use.

    If it helps you then please feel free to share it with anyone in need. All the questions and answers are within.

    Simply click here for the free meditation – The return Journey of the heart

    Love and blessings,

    Yvette Karan`

     

     

  • A Thought for You All

    2021 brings a new start to a new year…with a new year people often see new opportunities, new adventures and, of course, new challenges! Some of you may have made new year resolutions and they may be the very thing that keeps you going. Whatever you do, be kind to yourself and not just in these strange times but always.

     

    For some, the start of this year may have felt a little unexpected. For many, it would not have been a surprise.  Managing the reality of where we are with where we would like to be can be challenging, especially when some of the circumstances may be out of our control. The how’s and the when’s may rely on factors outside of your influence – your external world.  Being able to plan in the uncertainty we are facing at the moment is undoubtedly challenging. This is when tapping into your intuition, your inner knowing, can provide you with a great sense of calm, clarity, and understanding.

    When you take the time to connect to yourself, whether it’s 5 minutes or 30, you drown out the outside world for a moment. Putting down deadlines, expectations, worries, emotions, and simply focusing on the present moment, allows you the chance to re-connect. It is in this moment of silence, a moment of stillness, when you regain your balance and focus. Ask a simple question such as “what matters most?” to help you. It is in this stillness that you are more likely to hear and pay attention to the answers. Practice this regularly and your intuitive side will grow and kick in naturally.

    “The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honours the servant and has forgotten the gift.” Albert Einstein

    You may ‘connect’ in many ways…for example you may go for a run, sit in meditation, spend time with a friend (albeit virtually at the moment!), do the housework, or spend time in the garden. To connect can mean different things to each of us and the method we use to put down the stresses, worries, and emotions of our day, and listen to our own self, will be different. It is about finding what allows you to quieten those well practised thoughts and reactions. For us, if you have followed our work for sometime (or even just a short time!), you will know we advocate the use of your breath. Those small moments of taking time to breathe fully, wholly and consciously really do add up!

    If you would like to deepen your connection and develop a greater sense of knowing (intuition), then Reiki is a wonderful way to do this, whether this is receiving a reiki treatment or learning how to harness the reiki energy yourself (see our upcoming events).  Reiki can receive a bad press, being seen as woo-woo or a bit “airy fairy”, but the team at YLK Mentors are here to challenge that view and show you it really is quite logical.

    Whatever way you choose to connect to you, we are encouraging you today to recognise when emotions are getting the better of you, when stress levels are rising or anxiety is creeping in and hit that pause button. Allow yourself to change the course of that thought process and connect

    With love, the Team at YLK Mentors x

     

  • Gratitude #youlovekindness

    Gratitude is the theme of our post, we are extremely grateful for the love and support of our colleagues and clients so we start with a heartfelt thank you. Find a little about our Ambassadors along with a tip on how to kickstart the New Year with purpose and focus….We know many of you are looking forward to waving 2020 goodbye it has undoubtedly brought about new challenges.  Yet in our experience with those challenges have come many lessons and reasons to be grateful.  It’s always important to recognise the challenges, acknowledge any pain or hardship relative to your own experience before letting this go and moving to gratitude.

     

    #YouLoveKindness

    We are sending a heart felt thank you to Kerry Burridge and our Ambassadors Rachel and Hattie for all their support in helping you maintain and develop a positive approach to your challenges, health and wellbeing this year. We would also like to thank all of our clients, current and old, for your continued support. We look forward to continuing to work with.

     

    The love of food and healthy intuitive eating with Hattie :- 

    Christmas is a time of cheer and joy and food. But in 2020, it’s been tough for many…Hattie has a natural way to help you learn to trust in your mind and your body. Get in touch with her, to help you begin that journey with trust in food.

    This year, we have introduced Hattie Rees as an Ambassador of YLK Mentors in our virtual online Reiki sessions. Hattie is a Nutritionist using the ‘whole-self’ approach to treatment, combining nutritional science with holistic teachings. She is here to guide you in every aspect of your relationship with food, health and wellbeing. If you feel you have strayed away from what you feel is healthy, or you are unsure about your relationship with food, talk to Hattie about her Intuitive Eating. After completing her degree in Nutrition, Hattie completed her training with the London Centre of Intuitive Eating. This process includes mechanisms of coping with disordered eating habits, as well as rediscovering what hunger/fullness cues mean, ultimately leading to a lifestyle with no nutritional restrictions. Take that step and have a chat with Hattie to better fulfil your eating patterns. Look out for our Workshop with Hattie in the coming year…

    Click here to find out more about Hattie’s approach and Intuitive Eating

     

    Acknowledging trust and focus

    We would like to thank Kerry Burridge for all her hard work this year despite the Pandemic. She has shown that if you put your mind  to it, you can achieve anything that you want to. We were talking to Kerry, late last year, about the reasons why people struggle with swimming and why they feel they can’t swim or why their kids can’t swim. The reason, as Kerry said, was lack of trust – lack of trust in themselves and their capabilities. She also explained to us, that it is about the story that people tell themselves. Kerry’s way of manoeuvring beyond this is not giving them a chance to think about it…to hesitate…to second guess their capabilities. Action, without thought, can bring out the best in people. Kerry has continued her own massage and bodywork business throughout this crazy year while continuing to teach people how to swim and overcome their fear of water.

    With the sponsorship of YLK Mentors, Kerry has built up a new business – KB Swim and Coaching. With her determination and hard work, Kerry has managed to stay afloat, so to speak, and grow beyond what she ever expected.

     

     

    Time to look after you in the best way you can…

    Rachel from Catkin flowers work throughout this year has been all about love and care– she has some great exciting new work that she will be offering next year – she often reminds us of the importance of keeping occupied and nurturing our mental and emotional wellbeing amongst the parade of self-isolation, lockdowns, and social distancing. Connecting ourselves back to nature and the mental harmony we can find in letting go of stressful pressures is something that Rachel promotes through her work. We are sure that the trips you have managed to make outside of your house during this year have been crucial to your mental state, especially when it is focused on getting some fresh air and new surroundings. Find out more about Rachel here.

     

    Time for Reflection…thoughts from Yvette & Lindsey 

    Sometimes life can be so busy going from one task to the next you may feel you are constantly ticking the next item off the list without pausing to recognise the successes, fails, value and fulfilment each item may bring.  Before you know it a whole year has passed and you may be left wondering what you achieved!  No matter if you are well-practised in the skill of positive reflection or not, taking time to reflect on your whole year can have a great impact on what’s to come in 2021…

    If you haven’t done this already perhaps schedule a little time in your diary (between the 26th and 31st December can work well) to sit quietly and consider the following questions:

    • What has this year taught me?
    • What has worked well for me….and what hasn’t? And (perhaps most importantly) at what cost?
    • What changes would I like to make?
    • What would I like to achieve in 2021?

    Answering these questions honestly and constructively can really help you see what is important to you, what is fulfilling you, your beliefs, values and passion along with what you could let go of. Take time to reflect and step into 2021 with clarity, purpose and focus. We will be thinking and sending good thoughts out to you all. Love Yvette & Lindsey.

  • Reiki Two

    Help others on their path 

     

    Level Two Reiki   isn’t just about becoming a practitioner, some of you may not want to take this step, but it is also about sharing and giving the energy to you, your friends and your family. When you began your Reiki One, the purpose may have been to heal, to get to know yourself and the feeling of Reiki. It is about an understanding of you and the power of the energy itself.

    If you have completed your Reiki One and have gained your certificate then this course is your next step in Reiki.

    Reiki Two enables you to take the steps in becoming a practitioner, it will help reinforce the energies within you, and give a different understanding of the energy itself.

    Take the next steps  

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    Reiki, as an energy force, enables you to really see, and know yourself – how we as humans work and function. Therefore, by understanding yourself, you will be able to understand other people and recognise the conscious and unconscious factors in people’s actions. Reiki Two therefore, will enable you to use the Reiki energy and discipline to help others in your life and, if you wish, to help other people as a practitioner. The Course expands upon the teachings of Reiki One aimed at using the energy for yourself and your well-being in order for you to use this knowledge for the benefit of others.

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    This Course will provide you with a Reiki Manual, Reiki Workbook, and a Case Study Workbook in which you will need to complete to gain your certificate. It will be required for students to complete a certain number of case studies to gain your certificate. Along with this Course, after the Course itself, each student will be granted a free Q&A call with a member of the Team.

    Over the weekend, you will learn:

    • An understanding of the Reiki Symbols
    • The Holistic symbolism of the body
    • A deeper understanding of the Chakras
    • How to give a full Reiki Treatment
    • Distant Healing
    • How to complete your Case Studies

    Our guidance will be available for students.

     Don’t miss out…

     

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  • Reiki 1 & 2 Combined

    Give yourself the opportunity to grow and work with you

     

    What happens on this exciting weekend… The best thing about this weekend is the interaction between the mixture of Reiki I and Reiki II students within the group. You gain first hand experience of learning from those who have already begun their journey with Reiki and helping those starting their journey…they say the best way to learn is to teach and share with another, this is one of our most exciting courses in the Reiki journey.

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    We see Reiki as an important tool for personal development, growth and understanding. It does help all areas of your life personal, business, family and relationships. As you learn to connect to yourself you will open yourself to new possibilities, dreams, direction and clarity. We have always believed that you are the only one to know what you truly want, others may help you but YOU are the only person to fulfill your dreams.

     

    Reiki One is about helping yourself, treating yourself and creating awareness for your mind and body. It will aid you to use a discipline in regards to your issues, mental, emotional and physical, to prevent you from lapsing and soaking everything up like a sponge.

     

    Reiki Two helps strengthen the connection with you and is where you can begin to help other people and share your experience. Many people further this experience by becoming a practitioner, this is a choice and isn’t necessary for everyone but the understanding you gain from Reiki II will enhance your own experience no matter which path you choose.

    If you decide to take Reiki as a profession we are here to guide you and help you build your practice.

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  • Finding your way through the mist of confusion…A Journey to Empowerment

    We often hear people talk about Life being for Living – it can be the simplest thing to do and yet so difficult sometimes. People tell us they never know which way to turn or what it is that they actually need to truly live their lives.

    In an age where we are blessed to have so many choices, options and information at our fingertips for some this can cause confusion.  If you lack clarity and direction in your own life the plethora of choices can be overwhelming.  Social media for example may give a platform for you to easily compare your life against others.  Comparing what you have and what you don’t have will cause you to be against yourself.  Human beings only seek and absorb the evidence that supports the story they are telling themselves. By constantly comparing yourself to others you are  compounding the negative story you are telling yourself…for example ‘I am not enough’, ‘I am not good enough’, ‘I will only be happy when…’ etc.

    Learn to be happy now… in the now… look at what you have and be truly thankful for it.  Practice appreciation.

    One of the fundamental things that is often forgotten is that happiness, passion and desires are not necessarily what other people do, say or think .  When you have self awareness and self understanding you will be your own guide to what will make you feel happy and successful – contented within your life.

    When you truly know yourself, you will understand what it is you want

     

    Tips to help you get started…

    1. Take positive, fulfilling time out for you…smile and appreciate the time you give for yourself
    2. Make a journal and write down every week a few things that you feel grateful for
    3. Make a map of where you are in yourself, and if you use negative words please change them…your first map be honest, then do another map with more positive words.

    Remember you have choices to how you view your life…

  • Why me…!

     

    Chronic pain, Disease and Illness can sometimes be extremely debilitating. In the holistic view, your body is in need of you, and when you learn to understand what your body needs your focus changes. When the body becomes ill in any way, it’s the body’s way of explaining something to you.  This is a very interesting concept and there have been many books written on the subject.

     

     

    Why Me…! is an exclusive event focused on working with people who suffer from pain, illness or disease where Yvette shares her own experiences and secrets of her dealing with her own tumour. Sometimes its not about eradicating illness but changing your focus of it, so that it doesn’t rule your life. When you turn your suffering or pain into strength it gives you different choices. Yvette will share her strategies she used to help herself so that you can use them for yourself.

    Take the steps to make the change 

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    Be ready to take the leap and make those changes  

    • Turn your pain or illness into a strength
    • Learn to listen to your body and what your body needs
    • Look after your mental and emotional self
    • Gain physical stability and security within yourself
    • Look at your illness head on and use action to make these changes

     

    “Sometimes the smallest step in the right direction ends up being the biggest step of your life. Tip Toe if you must, but take a step.” – Naeem Callaway

     

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  • Healing the Rift

     

    Family life can be very difficult when juggling all the different daily life issues. Working with clients, the Team understands how important it is to recognise when there is a need for help.

    The Team at YLK Mentors have helped many families grow together, to ease the conflicts and break downs within the family. They appreciate that change can have an impact on families and have seen the different techniques they teach help to remove hurt, blame and guilt, resulting in more families coming together. The Team also recognises that these issues may not be present solely within the current family situation but may have continued through several generations…

     

     

     

    When you recognise what the conflict is and what it is causing then you will be able help your family. Learn to change how you respond to certain situations and create the help your family needs.

     

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    Learn in this event how you yourself have an influence within your family

     

    Old Ways Won’t Open New Doors- Unknown

    Are you ready to make a difference? Learn how to:

    • Create better communication within your family
    • Release the conflicts and stresses
    • How to create change for a member of your family who have issues in being bullied, low self – esteem, low confidence, or who has anxiety, depression or self harm problems
    • How to listen and respond

    Change doesn’t happen unless you decide to change

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  • Empower Your Relationships

    Take the time that is needed for you to attract something new

    By learning the secrets of yourself you will be able to change anything…the most important relationship you’ll have is with yourself. When this is in balance your relationships will be very fulfilling.

    When you develop self love, honesty, trust and balanced communication with yourself then you’ll understand the abundance you’ll attract in your life

     

    If you want something different then take action 

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    There is an understanding that people attract other people based on their issues as if they are presented to that person through their relationship you will attract similar to you…

    When relationships break down you can then go into a downward spiral and get lost in it all. Having the feeling of being lonely can drive you in a negative way.

    Ask yourself if it is time to change and bring happiness into your life

     

    Join us in this event and learn

    • To understand  where the issues have come from 
    • How to empower yourself
    • Learn how to change your habits 
    • Stop the blaming that goes on in your head
    • Get an understanding of where you are in the relationship with yourself

    “Don’t put off until tomorrow what you can do today.”

    ― Benjamin Franklin

    Join us on our next date

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    If you are attracting the same kind of relationships  and wonder why then this event is for you. When you attract the same kind of relationships then your self esteem, confidence and self worth can be low.

     

    During this event you will learn:

    • The importance of  self-respect
    • Appreciation  of yourself
    • Why sometimes being selfish can be a life saver
    • Your own  self-worth 
    • About yourself and your relationships
    • How to stop  attracting the same relationship

    The Time is now 

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